Sunday Thoughts ~ November 17, 2019

“We need to be angels for each other, to give each other strength and consolation.” ~ Henri Nouwen


Good Sunday morning, my friends.  I hope you are seeing blue skies this morning.  This past Tuesday, here in the hills of West Virginia, we had our first dusting of snow.  Just enough to be pretty.  However, it was a reminder of the snowy days ahead.

Today, I would like to share something I feel is most inspirational.  When I began to gather my thoughts regarding today’s post, there it was, wrinkled and jaggedly torn from a magazine.  It is an inspiring piece, written by Elizabeth M. Gilbert, author of her 2006 memoir, “Eat, Pray, Love.”  (See notes at the end of this post.)  I hope you will also find it meaningful.

Pay attention. Be astonished. Tell about it.” ~ Mary Oliver


The following article was written by, Elizabeth M. Gilbert.

“Some years ago, I was stuck on a crosstown bus in New York City during rush hour. Traffic was barely moving. The bus was filled with cold, tired people who were deeply irritated ~ with one another; with the rainy, sleety weather; with the world itself. Two men barked at each other about a shove that might or might not have been intentional. A pregnant woman got on, and nobody offered her a seat. Rage was in the air; no mercy would be found here.

But as the bus approached Seventh Avenue, the driver got on the intercom. “Folks,” he said, “I know you’ve had a rough day and you’re frustrated. I can’t do anything about the weather or traffic, but here’s what I can do. As each one of you gets off the bus, I will reach out my hand to you. As you walk by, drop your troubles into the palm of my hand, okay? Don’t take your problems home to your families tonight ~ just leave ‘em with me. My route goes right by the Hudson River, and when I drive by there later, I’ll open the window and throw your troubles in the water. Sound good?”

It was as if a spell had lifted. Everyone burst out laughing. Faces gleamed with surprised delight. People who’d been pretending for the past hour not to notice each other’s existence were suddenly grinning at each other like, is this guy serious?

Oh, he was serious.

At the next stop ~ just as promised ~ the driver reached out his hand, palm up, and waited. One by one, all the exiting commuters placed their hand just above his and mimed the gesture of dropping something into his palm. Some people laughed as they did this, some teared up ~ but everyone did it. The driver repeated the same lovely ritual at the next stop, too. And the next. All the way to the river.

We live in a hard world, my friends. Sometimes it’s extra difficult to be a human being. Sometimes you have a bad day. Sometimes you have a bad day that lasts for several years. You struggle and fail. You lose jobs, money, friends, faith, and love. You witness horrible events unfolding in the news, and you become fearful and withdrawn. There are times when everything seems cloaked in darkness. You long for the light but don’t know where to find it.

But what if you are the light? What if you’re the very agent of illumination that a dark situation begs for?

That’s what this bus driver taught me ~ that anyone can be the light, at any moment. This guy wasn’t some big power player. He wasn’t a spiritual leader. He wasn’t some media-savvy “influencer.” He was a bus driver ~ one of society’s most invisible workers. But he possessed real power, and he used it beautifully for our benefit.

When life feels especially grim, or when I feel particularly powerless in the face of the world’s troubles, I think of this man and ask myself, What can I do, right now, to be the light? Of course, I can’t personally end all wars, or solve global warming, or transform vexing people into entirely different creatures. I definitely can’t control traffic. But I do have some influence on everyone I brush up against, even if we never speak or learn each other’s name. How we behave matters because within human society everything is contagious ~ sadness and anger, yes, but also patience and generosity. Which means we all have more influence than we realize.

No matter who you are, or where you are, or how mundane or tough your situation may seem, I believe you can illuminate your world. In fact, I believe this is the only way the world will ever be illuminated ~ one bright act of grace at a time, all the way to the river.”

“Be a lighthouse of love because many of us are ships that are desperately seeking a safe place from the storms of life.  Sometimes we just need to know we won’t sink and that land is closer than we think.” ~  T. B. LaBerge



Dear friends, thank you so much for visiting. 

Know, I wish you and yours a beautiful day.


May your path glow with kind and beautiful souls.



Authors notes: ~ Elizabeth M. Gilbert (born July 18, 1969) is an American author. She is best known for her 2006 memoir, Eat, Pray, Love, which as of December 2010, had spent 199 weeks on the New York Times Best Seller list, and which was also made into a film by the same name in 2010. 


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10 thoughts on “Sunday Thoughts ~ November 17, 2019

  1. Dear Sandra,
    This post is so adorable! One of my favorites here! I will try to rememember it everyday…Thanks for sharing,you made me smile! Have a blessed Sunday!

  2. Beautiful and thoughtful post, dear friend. Thank you for the inspiration and peace you provide each Sunday. Happy Sunday my dear friend!

  3. What an uplifting story! I look forward to your post every week. It is so special that you see beauty and grace all around you and share it with us. Thank you and God bless you.

    1. Dear Ellen, many thanks for your kind words. Have a lovely day and week ahead, my friend. Thank you also for visiting.❤

  4. Sandra, what a lovely post! Oh, that I would be a light, it only takes a tiny flicker to dispel the darkness. Thank you sweet friend for your attention to the often overlooked. Wishing you a beauty-filled week!

  5. Of course, I’m coming to you late, but oh, so well worth the wait! When you wrote this: But what if you are the light? What if you’re the very agent of illumination that a dark situation begs for? — well, you nailed it. We can all be the light and if enough lights shine, the world will be ever so much brighter. Thank you for this, especially on the busy days to come, the tense political days and those crazy holiday-days. We need this reminder. All of us.

    1. Many thanks, Jeanie. I so appreciate your visit and taking the time to comment.

      I believe as you do, the world is a little crazy and can be so hectic. Happy Thanksgiving to you, Rick and family.

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